A thoughtful Father’s Day post from one of our investors, Fred Wilson, on the importance of being present:
Around that time, I attended an offsite of a larger private equity firm and there was a organizational psychologist who gave a talk on work life balance. He said something I’ll never forget. He said that you have about ten to twelve years to connect with your kids and then they turn into teenagers, tune you out, then turn into adults and build their own lives. I thought about my kids who were five, three, and a baby and realized that time was short and I needed to be present in their lives in every way that I could. And I committed right there and then to do that. And I’ve done a pretty decent job of it. Not perfect by any means. But much better than my yoga practice.
Marriage is harder than parenthood. The Gotham Gal and I have been together for almost thirty years. I’ve heard every single one of her stories a dozen times. And she has heard mine too. Familiarity and comfort with each other is a double edged sword. We can finish each other’s sentences but that also means the sentences sometimes aren’t even uttered.
Being present in a relationship, whether it is with your kids, your spouse, or anyone important in your life is hard work, particularly for overstimulated type A personalities like me and many of the people who read this blog.
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